Blog 117 Ever felt like you blew it?

Ever felt like you blew it, and you are beating yourself up about it?
This happens to all of us!!! We all make mistakes.

Like we said something and it hurt someone, or we did something we didn’t intend to do. Then we get angry and disappointed with our self, judging and beating our self-up about it maybe for a few hours or days or even many years. Yikes!

Last week, I said something that I regretted to someone I care about, and have been chastising myself ever since. What a waste of energy! Right!?! Just apologize! I told them I was so sorry and I love them very much and they understood. Carrying the weight of the world on our shoulders about something, robs us of our energy!

We are all human and make mistakes or say or do the wrong thing at the wrong time; that is what lessons are all about.

We are in this Earth School every moment of this life time; so all we can do is choose to learn or waste our time and moaning and groining about it. Taking the time to ground and meditate on something I keep doing over and over is truly a gift?  Is it one of my lessons I need and chose to learn in this life, so it keeps showing up.

Funny how I look back at my life and growing up, and all the crazy things I did and other things I stopped myself from doing. :)

I find the main thing is to stop and ask my God Self when I am feeling like that. To get off the merry go round of blame, shame and judgement and begin to appreciate the realization and begin to forgive. Maybe first forgiving the other person and then have them forgive me and then forgive myself.

In most situations we can say we are sorry and apologize, but in some cases we can’t. Such as still feeling bad about something you said to someone who made their transition to spirit and you feel you can’t talk to them. But you can, just write a letter to then and then read it out loud and burn the letter in the fireplace. They will receive the spirit to spirit message metaphysically on the other side.

Sometimes when we apologize to a family or friend and that person just can’t have it that is ok hopefully someday they will.

Our work is to heal and to accept and forgive others and ourselves and allow the energy to be LOVE! Knowing that God’s loving grace is healing them and healing us.

Flowing with the insights that come with the Aha moments when communicating with others is truly almost a daily lesson to learn. Like swimming with the turtles, I feel like I am flying and floating all at once and all stress just disappears.

Be gentle with yourself, get off your back and forgive; and let the love and joy flow again!!! Let you LIGHT shine!

Photo of a beautiful Green Turtle I swam with in Hawaii.